tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5244530573257980725.post9082177884577162167..comments2023-09-09T06:19:08.207-07:00Comments on moore musings: rumbly in my tumblyMoore Musingshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11705486395256952089noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5244530573257980725.post-79508491181812119832008-08-23T13:41:00.000-07:002008-08-23T13:41:00.000-07:00very true. tad & I went into hiding the year...very true. tad & I went into hiding the year after we were married. but i found that no one was there when Tad and I came out. it hurts, but I know know now who my friends are. (even if they aren't geographically near.) and i know that great friendships takes a while... a little longer then I expected.Alisa Mariehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14401374783733412223noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5244530573257980725.post-38097451820231510462008-08-22T13:59:00.000-07:002008-08-22T13:59:00.000-07:00I wish I had a really great response to this, but ...I wish I had a really great response to this, but I also think the only thing I can say is that growing into different friendships and having different expectations from our friends is a part of the whole growing up process...<BR/><BR/>I totally support your need to love your husband and live your life, to stop being just the entertainer and the crazy one, or the friend that is always there for someone. It gets old.<BR/><BR/>I think that part of me knows that my friendships with people have changed and I don't feel like I need to keep as many as I used to, and another part of me just asks people to accept what I can give while I try to do the same for them. I don't know if that makes a whole lot of sense, but I feel like sometimes it helps me with things.catbonnyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17149673259883574032noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5244530573257980725.post-39351638730901188762008-08-22T09:31:00.000-07:002008-08-22T09:31:00.000-07:00It reminds me of my parents, they hardly have any ...It reminds me of my parents, they hardly have any friends and I used to think how sad. But now I understand that the friends they have are much stronger and these people will be there for them.<BR/><BR/>I have also discovered in my marriage that 99% of the time I would rather be alone with Colette.<BR/><BR/>As far as the third person, I wouldn't worry about it too much. It wasn't an "I'm insecure so I talk about myself" third person. It was a "self awareness" third person. Much better.Kyle Rayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09466492081077521823noreply@blogger.com